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Unlock Your Inner Light with Astrology: A Guide to Self-Love and Healing

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Falling Stars in the Night

How do you find happiness within yourself? How do you find your inner starlight as you are surrounded by darkness?


When your life feels like it's falling apart, what’s left? Your soul’s infinite light and love. The light of your soul defines you. The dark only cradles your being, but it doesn’t consume your light.


As the saying goes, we are all made of stardust. The wise words of Carl Sagan ring true at times. However, whenever you are in the midst of this reality—living on Earth with its heartaches and constant reaching for fulfillment amid challenges—you might feel anything but a star.



Living Behind a Mask


I have to say that as this is my first time penning my experience on the internet, this can be a bit exposing for my Pluto rising soul—but I can care less at this point. At one time, I was regularly showing up on Instagram or on my podcast, Align Your Stars, plastering a forced smile as I extended my astrological insights. Believe me, it wasn't my most proud moment to keep on this facade.


A woman veils herself in a translucent fabric, creating an ethereal and mysterious silhouette in monochrome.

Behind that smile, I was hiding a lot of pain and a glimmer of hope that somehow, someday, my life would be better. It has to, and it’s about to get real. Pluto, after all, is the agent of truth. I have no choice but to tell you my story.


At the time of filming my podcast, I always just wondered, “What if I just smile my way through to make things better?” The more I molded and shifted myself, the more constricted I felt in my body. My life crashed and burned before it even began. As I looked at the broken fragments of my life that I kept trying to paste together—my failing marriage, friendships, my well-being, my astrology practice—everything was breaking open as I took a hard look at myself and saw the cold, hard reality of how my inner star was burning out. My heart was emptied and slowly breaking the longer I stayed in my marriage. No matter what I did, I couldn’t hold on any longer. The most solid thing in my life was astrology and my strong faith in the Universe.


Astrology: The Constant in My Life


Although I was helping countless clients navigate their stars and planets, I discovered that many come to me when they feel a missing piece in their lives. Many ask, “When will Mr. or Ms. Right come into my life?” or “What can I do to make her/him love me more?” I realized then how I, too, was asking the same questions internally while I was in my marriage. You know how they say, “Those who can’t do, they teach”? I was the prime example of someone dedicated to helping others and completely buried my sorrows in my work.


You see, I am an astrologer specializing in love and self-acceptance. Love is synonymous with self-love, and there is no set timeline for when love comes to your door. The stars reveal periods when your soul is open to exploring the realms of love, but there are lessons ahead that you must master to attract THE love of your life. What if you are the love story? You must rebuild yourself and shine your inner light to be seen by your beloved—or at least attract better outcomes in your story.


The Power of Love and Self-Acceptance


We have to remember our light, and to find that light is when we cross into dark night of the soul periods. It’s virtually impossible to realize our light if we don’t experience darkness. I’ve lived it and seen how much my light dimmed when I remained in my marriage. Overtime, I was fading and nearly lost myself. Losing my light wasn’t the end goal, and I knew that I deserved better. Which is why I decided to leave. Without spilling too many details about my marriage, to sum it up, it was completely unrequited. I thought he was the love of my life, but it was only an illusion from the start. In the end, I began wearing a mask painted like his, shrinking little by little. Although the end of my marriage wasn’t what I envisioned, there were moments when I realized that my past experience was a part of a greater plan. It helped me discover my light and how I can help you rediscover yourself if you find yourself in a similar situation as I was.



A woman gracefully strolls along a winding path under a starry night sky, surrounded by the tranquil beauty of the hills.

The Dark Night of the Soul: Finding Light Through Darkness


My path as an astrologer is to show how you can best rebuild yourself after you fall. Whether in existential crisis, breakups, or even divorces, I want you to know that you can recover, and through the stars' guidance, I will teach you how to elevate yourself to your best version. To raise the vibration of your soul and wellbeing through connection with your planets.


I want to unearth your personal evolution. We are all given this gift of inner knowing, and by learning how to decipher the celestial language of the stars, you too can reflect your light. I see life as an experience, not fate-based. We hold the power to define who we are. When life appears to look murky in color, that is our soul's red flag. As cosmic beings, we have the ability to invite joy and rise above the shadows of our traumas. When we aim to shine our inner light, that is when the universe bestows its gifts of grace.


Your birth chart is an outlet for you to grow, know yourself, or become who you want to be. Whenever we experience pain, loss, or grief, we are completely broken open. When this happens, there’s an opportunity to rebuild after, and what if you can become fully illuminated as the star you were meant to be? Every planet that orbits around the Sun is a mere representation of your life experiences and your free will in how you can react.


Rebuilding: How Astrology Can Help You Shine


What if your birth chart can be the guiding key for you to discover your true self? I believe it can, because it helped me find the way out of the darkness and into my light. I appreciate the darkness just as much as my light. But to be enveloped in a narrative that consumes and influences you to live on autopilot—that’s your soul’s red flag.


The sun is rising behind the man as he gazes into the sky. His eyes are focused on what's next in his journey.

Your Sun Sign’s Rite of Passage


Each of us has a unique path to walk—a "rite of passage" that aligns with the energies of our Sun sign. These lessons, challenges, and strengths shape us, guiding how we interact with the world and grow from our experiences. Understanding your Sun sign can offer profound insights into your personal growth and how you can find your inner light, especially when you’re navigating through dark periods. Let’s explore how the qualities of each Sun sign contribute to the journey of self-discovery and healing.


Aries Zodiac Glyph

Aries (March 21--April 19)

The Aries sign can be seen as a spark of fire. That slight glimmer of fire can start a warm campfire, burn out fast, or flare out uncontrollably, like a wildfire. This is the embodiment of the cardinal fire sign. As the first sign of the zodiac and a cardinal energy, Aries are meant to step into the path in realizing their ability to initiate and set the tone of their own success by honoring their boldness. The ram is notable for its ability to take aim with its horns in the midst of conflict. Leadership and taking ownership in whatever they set their sights on will ignite their willpower. Holding an air of purity and seeing life all around as a new conquest to fulfill their vision is what can extend the path toward overall fulfillment and connection. They hold a powerful mindset and nothing can stop them in their path. Leading their life with power and belief will help them cross any hurdles of self-doubt. As long as they contain their divine spark, they will shine a light of hope for humanity to carry on.



Taurus Zodiac Glyph

Taurus (April 20--May 20)

As the sign of the bull, Taurus at times is calm and reserved. This sign represents the middle of the spring season. When the trees are blooming and it reveals the fullness of life re-emerging from its branches. They are the stabilizing force of energy, and those who are this sign are reputable for taking their time in moving. As a fixed sign, Taurus are still and granular in their energetic makeup, and they are persevering in their process in life. Extending beauty and support is a part of their soul’s fulfillment. There are extremes of temperament that can be seen when pushed to their limit, but validly so, since they really take their time unleashing their anger. These natives do not lose themselves due to mental conflict, hence the reason why they have the capability in connecting with their souls in a pure manner. As their soul purpose, they are meant to enlighten the path by invoking positivity on the physical plane. This can be done by transmuting physical desire to spiritual liberation by creating beauty and detaching oneself from earthy overindulgence.



Gemini Zodiac Glyph

Gemini (May 21-June 20)

Like the wind, Geminis spiral out in different directions with their communication and ideas. As a mutable sign, they energetically represent the end of spring—the time when in nature, the pollen swells with promise and spreads its message to other places by the swirling wind. They are the messengers of the zodiac and enable communication to flow in order to keep things moving in life. As seen as the Twins, this air sign reveals the polarity in situations and bridges the gaps in missed information. Their purpose is to be the messengers of the world, expressing ideas and purpose. They are to create a soul-centered approach to life by revealing the ways to integrate and harmonize duality. Geminis are here to share the truth, strengthen themselves by confidently speaking openly, relating to all walks of life by embracing diversity, and to endlessly engage their minds as well as others. To step into their purpose, they are to collect information from every soul they connect with, and to tangibly develop their unique process by sharing their collected insights with the world. They invoke peace by revealing all that was gathered.



Cancer Zodiac Glyph

Cancer (June 21--July 22)

Cancer is the protector of the zodiac, often seen as a nurturing soul who creates a safe space for others. Representing the energy of water, Cancer is both intuitive and deeply emotional. As a cardinal water sign, they are driven by their feelings and are naturally inclined to support and care for those they love. Like the tides, Cancer’s moods ebb and flow, but their connection to their family and home is unwavering. Their soul’s purpose is to find emotional security within themselves and to offer the same to others, building strong, trusting relationships. They are meant to shine by cultivating compassion and empathy, encouraging those around them to open their hearts. Their light comes from their ability to heal and soothe, turning their deep emotional wisdom into a source of strength and support for others.



Leo Zodiac Glyph

Leo (July 23--August 22)

Leos are the radiant, bold leaders of the zodiac, known for their innate ability to shine in the spotlight. Ruled by the Sun, their light is truly the epitome of self-expression and confidence. As a fixed fire sign, Leo has a powerful presence, and they are often drawn to situations where they can take charge and lead. Their soul’s purpose is to embody the qualities of courage, warmth, and generosity, creating an inspiring example for others to follow. Leos are meant to shine not by controlling others but by encouraging them to rise to their own greatness. Their light comes from their authenticity and willingness to show up as their true selves, inspiring others to do the same.



Virgo Zodiac Glyph

Virgo (August 23--September 22)

Virgo is the healer and the organizer, with a sharp eye for detail and an innate drive for service. As an earth sign, Virgo is practical, grounded, and deeply concerned with making the world a better place. Ruled by Mercury, they are also intellectuals with a deep need to analyze and improve. Their soul’s purpose is to serve others through acts of kindness and by sharing their knowledge in ways that bring healing and transformation. Virgos are meant to shine by creating order in chaos and helping others find their own sense of clarity. Their light comes from their dedication to self-improvement and their desire to help those around them become the best versions of themselves.


Libra Zodiac Glyph

Libra (September 23--October 22)

Libra is the zodiac’s peacemaker, the one who strives for balance, harmony, and fairness in all aspects of life. As an air sign ruled by Venus, Libra has a natural affinity for beauty, art, and connection. Their soul’s purpose is to create peace and understanding between others, helping to bridge gaps and encourage cooperation. Libras are here to shine by embracing their ability to empathize with different perspectives and by promoting equality and justice in their communities. Their light comes from their ability to seek balance and make others feel seen and heard, helping to create a more harmonious world.



Scorpio Zodiac Glyph

Scorpio (October 23--November 21)

Scorpio is the sign of transformation, intensity, and deep emotional connection. As a fixed water sign, Scorpio’s energy is profound and transformative, often diving into the depths of the subconscious to uncover hidden truths. Ruled by Pluto, they have a natural ability to regenerate, constantly evolving and shedding old layers of themselves in pursuit of personal growth. Their soul’s purpose is to teach others the power of emotional depth and resilience, showing how even in the darkest times, there is potential for rebirth. Scorpios shine by embracing their inner power, transforming pain into strength, and helping others do the same. Their light comes from their ability to heal through deep emotional understanding and personal transformation.



Sagittarius Zodiac Glyph

Sagittarius (November 22--December 20)

Sagittarius is the philosopher and adventurer of the zodiac, driven by a deep quest for knowledge, freedom, and truth. As a mutable fire sign, Sagittarius has an innate curiosity that leads them to explore both the world around them and the realms of higher thought. Ruled by Jupiter, they are optimistic, open-minded, and always looking to expand their horizons. Their soul’s purpose is to inspire others to seek truth and wisdom, encouraging them to embrace new perspectives and experiences. Sagittarians shine by sharing their wisdom with others and by living their lives as an example of freedom and exploration. Their light comes from their boundless optimism, their philosophical nature, and their commitment to growth and expansion.



Capricorn Zodiac Glyph

Capricorn (December 21--January 19)

Capricorn is the zodiac’s builder, known for their strong sense of discipline, responsibility, and ambition. As a cardinal earth sign, Capricorn is determined to climb the ladder of success, both personally and professionally, with patience and persistence. Ruled by Saturn, they are also highly skilled at mastering practical skills and navigating the material world. Their soul’s purpose is to teach others the value of hard work, perseverance, and long-term planning, showing that success is earned through dedication and patience. Capricorns shine by embodying the principles of integrity, responsibility, and mastery, proving that with effort and commitment, anything is possible. Their light comes from their ability to create lasting structures and systems that benefit themselves and others.



Aquarius Zodiac Glyph

Aquarius (January 20--February 18)

Aquarius is the visionary and the rebel, constantly looking toward the future and seeking innovative solutions to the world’s problems. As a fixed air sign, Aquarius is intellectually driven, often focused on abstract concepts and ideals that push the boundaries of conventional thinking. Ruled by Uranus, they are natural innovators, always looking for ways to break free from the status quo and create a new, more progressive world. Their soul’s purpose is to encourage others to embrace individuality and think outside the box, helping to spark social and technological revolutions. Aquarians shine by being true to their unique selves and by using their intellectual and creative talents to bring about positive change. Their light comes from their ability to envision a better future and inspire others to join them in making it a reality.



Pisces Zodiac Glyph

Pisces (February 19--March 20)

Pisces is the dreamer, the mystic, and the healer of the zodiac, deeply connected to the spiritual and emotional realms. As a mutable water sign, Pisces is highly intuitive, compassionate, and empathetic, often feeling deeply connected to the collective consciousness. Ruled by Neptune, they have an innate ability to transcend the material world and tap into the divine. Their soul’s purpose is to help others access their inner worlds and connect with their higher selves, guiding them through emotional or spiritual journeys. Pisces shine by embodying unconditional love and compassion, offering healing and comfort to those in need. Their light comes from their ability to embrace the infinite, to transcend ordinary reality, and to inspire others to connect with their own spiritual nature.


Embrace Your Starry Self

Are you ready to find your inner light through the stars? Book a personal astrology reading, and let’s explore your birth chart together! Together, we can discover the stars within you and let your light shine brighter than ever before.


Until next time!


With Love and Stars Logo of Woman and Purple Crescent Moon


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